When a child with Autism get his Ipad stolen.

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It has happened folks and I am sick to my stomach. Yesterday we took Mason to Children’s Hospital for his GI appointment, which didn’t go great by the way. Mason was given more meds and we have come to a point with his Reflux they can’t do much more without getting really invasive, possibility of a Major surgery or two. So Mason now has to go back to see ENT, to see just how swollen his voice box & throat are. But all of this was made so much worse.

Most of you know or have seen Mason with his ipad, the ipad I worked really hard to pay for and just this past January I finally bought. We bring the ipad everywhere with us, it helps keep Mason calm and busy when we go out. His therapists have been busy building his new Autism program around having the ipad. Children with Autism use ipads to communicate, for social stories to help with the anxiety of going places and they are great when you are out and there is a change of plans. Meltdowns have decreased significantly when out with the ipad. Mason’s therapists were going to being using the ipad for his daily routines and all visuals needed. Mason really likes to watch videos of people doing normal daily things, so we have also been slowly compiling videos so we can teach him with videos. We love Mason’s ipad and so does Mason, and not in a “typical” kid way.

Back to yesterday.

 

We got home from the hospital, the boys were half asleep and we just wanted to get them inside. So we got out of the van and I grabbed Mason’s backpack with his very expensive pump off the top of my bag. We went inside. My purse with my wallet, make up and Mason’s ipad were left in my van in front of our house. Within one and a half hours it was all gone.

Stollen. Some awful person stole from a child with Special Needs and a family, they stole more than just possessions. Right outside of our house, in an area that you think is safe. After talking to a bunch of the neighbours who leave their purses in their vehicles and even their houses unlocked i don’t feel so guilty. Kinda. I just feel sick to my stomach.

I feel like an idiot, how could I leave something of so much worth, just sitting there for the taking. Worst still I have no idea how to tell Mason. Do I wait until he asks for it? I am just so upset. Not only did they get the ipad, they got my wallet with all my ID, bank cards, the kids CareCards and gift cards. I had a $100 Spa Utopia gift card that my mother in law gave me for my birthday. I hadn’t spent it yet, felt guilty spending that kind of money on something like that, something for only me. And now someone who doesn’t deserve it is going spend it. Nick and I also had a date night out gift card in my wallet. Sick to my stomach.

 

I know that you have all helped out our family in anyway you could in the past, including buying all our kids their christmas presents last year. As much as I don’t want to ask I am going to.

 

We are going to be fundraising to be able to purchase Mason’s ipad again. I have not worked out any details of what we are going to be doing yet, but if you are interested in helping out let me know.

 

We are also entering every contest giving away an ipad, so if you know of any could you please let us know!

 

Thank you for all your support in whatever way you can support us.

 

I am just so sick about having to explain to Mason someone stole his ipad. I am not ready for the meltdowns that are about to happen.

 

 

 

Helping Mason
 

We have been brought to our knees.

How to say thank you?
The support that people have offered has been amazing.
There have been over 15 people who have posted about Mason, our family & the fundraiser.
There have been probably over 100 tweets about it.
I have received a couple dozen emails,
and we have received donations.
Amazing.
God is so good.

For those of you who are new to this Blog.
Our lives are not normal,
I am not positive all the time & I write about the negative often.
Not much has gotten better, but much has gotten worse in the last 6 months.
We have had appointments lately that have been incredibly hard.
We have been told that some things that have been in our nightmares are true.
The last several months have all been about waiting & our new reality.

And we are still waiting. 
Waiting for Genetics to come back & tell me if Mason has 
Smith-Magenis Syndrome or something else.
Waiting for the rest of our latest Autism Assessment which now happens on Tuesday.
Waiting to know what is really happening with our Son…
what can we expect our future to be.

It has been a month or so of reflection for me.
What would our life have been…
What should I do with it now.
See I am planner.

I need plans, organizations & to know what is coming.
God has taken us down a path that is not always easy.
It can cause lots of anxiety & lots of hurt.
But I do love my life.
I don’t know what I would do if my life was different.
It would be very empty, I would be very lost.

My life is not something to pity.
I am not a hero.
I am a Mom of three boys.
And yes one of them has special needs.
But I am no hero.
I am a Mom doing what has to be done to care for my children.
That is all.
I yell far too often & I get angry with our situation.
Sometimes I feel like giving up.
But how could I?
This is my life & I wouldn’t change it…too much.

This fundraiser for Mason means so much to our family.
We have felt alone in our fight for Mason.
Most have left us alone.
 Those who haven’t we cherish a lot more.

I never believed that when I starting Blogging that people would read.
I never thought what it could do for me.
I never thought that of what it could do for our family.
I just needed to write.

For everything it has done for us I need to thank you.
It has brought us to our knees…
we have been shaken down to our core with shock & emotion.
It’s just such a blessing.
So thank you.

Next week we will be spending a very large sum of money on Mason’s test & some supplies.
Thank you to all of you who have had the capabilities to donate & have.
We understand that not everyone can help financially & would never want you to feel that you have to.
All the support we have received no matter the form is more than we had imagined.

I have met some beautiful people this past week & hope to meet more as the fundraiser continues. 
Don’t be afraid to leave comments or email us.
It has been amazing to read your supportive words.

Alison from aPearantlySew left this verse on her post about Mason it really hit me hard so I share it with you.

“For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me. Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you? The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me”
Matthew 25:35-40 

God bless you.
May he keep your family healthy & happy.

The Sears Fam

Links to some of the people who have posted on our behalf:
(if you have posted & are not on this list please let me know)


http://twitter.com/#!/mamasitamica


And there are many more to come!